The breadth of our love is measured by our health condition.
Oxygenation, circulation, blood sugar regulation and the gamut of other health challenges one can be attracted to, all determine our health condition that attracts and creates a complementary relationship to learn and feel the lessons of love with.
Lisa's sensitivity to being pressured (confinement issues) that seem to come up when she's tired is a sure set up for her to be in a relationship that brings up this issue. She will attract someone who pushes her buttons. The better she becomes at stabilizing her energy level, the more adaptable and focused she can be on more important issues in her relationship-and she is no longer a victim of men who pressure her.
Gratitude for Life measures the vitality our health condition.
How often do you thank your lucky stars for being alive? How often do you complain about the circumstances you have attracted? How often do you express appreciation for the people around you? Are you cynical about life? Do you criticize or blame others? When we are healthy in body/mind/spirit we view the world and all its relationships as a perfect opportunity for emotional and spiritual growth. Negativity is a sure sign of a compromised health condition and a threat to the safety of any relationship.
Success in relationship is proportional to each partner's
attitude of gratitude/grace ful attitude
How often do you and your partner express (verbally or through actions)
"Thank-You"
The vitality of our health is directly proportional
to the vitality of the relationship we attract and create.
The healthier we are, the more adaptable we will be to the many challenges of relationship and the greater will our ability to stay together be. Love wanes when the overall love/health of the relationship wanes.
If one or both persons' love/health lacks vitality it can affect the relationship AND All challenges arise because the relationship has what it takes to heal/love and get back to vitality.
ADVICE: If one or both people in the relationship are tired or hurting, wait.... sleep on it. Exercise, meditate...become clear. Get back to vitality before making major decisions.
All challenges will bring up the two healthy options:
1) Resolving the fear of conflict brings partners closer and is usually the reason why fear comes up in the first place-to bring people closer together. Our differences bring us closer as long as we have the vitality to adapt and resolve...to come up with creative out of the box solutions that satisfy each partner 100%...(and enjoy the reward of make-up sex but more importantly to feel a new depth of connection that surpasses our imagination)
Breathe... feel the impulses that make us want to run-
behind this intensity echoes the sacred sound of divine silence
Stay with it -where is it in your body, breathe...circulate
Let this physical sensation fuel your vitality...clarity
the miracle of understanding surfaces
behind that mask of darkness comes the light of Love
see the solution...shining, radiating
brighter than we ever knew possible...and it is warm...soft..home at last)
2) Accept that the fear is a signal to Love in a different way.
When the fear is based in a truth that would dishonor one's integrity and ultimately cause harm to your soul, it's time to change the relationship to one that is more distant. This kind of fear represents a circumstance with effects that are too extreme for one to bear and still remain healthy. Love can still exist in gratitude to the journey so far and the relationship, will from this point on look and feel different than what you might have originally thought.
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